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Friday, 22 January 2010 03:41



Women’s Heart



"A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek

 Him in order to find her." – Unknown


I think that the most lost jewel in our society is the heart of a woman. No one can explain a women’s heart and nowadays not even a women can describe her own heart. What had happened , women lost there identity threw time and because past generation men misused the phrase of a submissive wife. Women nowadays don’t really know what their given role is in marriage. Because most of us come out of a generation were there are scares roll models we can lookup to , its almost impossible for young women to understand what God wants from them in their marriage.


I would venture to say that most marital difficulties centre around one fact— men and women are TOTALLY different. The differences (emotional, mental, and physical) are so extreme that without a concentrated effort to understand them, it is nearly impossible to have a happy marriage. A famous psychiatrist once said, “After thirty years of studying women, I ask myself, ‘What is it that they really want?’” If this was his conclusion, just imagine how little we know about our wives.

It’s so sad that men over decades saw women for only one thing, yes seeing there outward beauty, but for all the wrong reasons. Most of us as men come from a background of lust and don’t even have a clue what God meant when He said that we must love our wife’s just as He Loved the Church. Women in the process lost the sense of their heart because when it comes to love making our wife’s will feel misused and just as a piece of meat because we lust for them and didn’t love them. Through all this the Woman’s heart hardens, and the inner beauty of a quiet and gentle spirit got lost in time. How do we as husbands find our wife’s heart when she became hardened  maybe by our actions or by circumstances. We can look at two points:


1) Their hearts long to be hidden (safe, adored, secure) in something or someone.

2) And the thought of a man seeking God to know their heart is so tender and precious, and would leave any woman feeling extremely loved and cherished.

Yes, women’s hearts long to be hidden in someone who will protect, love and cherish them immensely for who they are and who they are becoming. But to many women, this quest to be hidden in someone ends in broken hearts, consuming emptiness, and wasted lives.

Take a look at the culture around you. What are most young women “hiding” themselves in? Boyfriends? Appearance? Clothes? Diets? Drugs? Sadly, the answer is yes. Sinful human nature will lead you right to these for satisfaction and happiness. A woman’s identity in this world is based on her man, body, and status. If you don’t have these, you will stand out – in a negative way.


As a result of this unbiblical mindset, young girls are cast into the world scrambling to be hidden in something just to fit in, and to find their own happiness. How cruelly they are deceived when a boyfriend doesn’t make you feel safe, your image changes, and at the end of the day you are still fighting that awful, gnawing hunger for something more in the core of your soul.


Is there a better way? Can women be hidden is something that really satisfies? YES! Sinful woman needs a Savior – and that is Jesus Christ. 

“Set your mind on things above, not on the things that are on earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” Col. 3:2-3 

Most of us men will not even try to understand the women’s heart most of us will simply just say to them “you need more things to fill up your day”.


 I know , me included sometimes lack the ability to listen to my wife, even when she talks stuff that doesn’t make sense or sometimes doesn’t make sense to her even, all she need to know is that you are listening to her and comfort her in her emotional madness. If we as men will just take some time out to study our wife’s better, making time to see what make them tick, we will solve so much issues. I’ve heard a phrase on Fireproof the movie that with your wife you will start with a certificate and then a degree and then bachelors etc. and you will never stop studying her. I praise the Lord that He made women interesting, how boring would the world be if we didn’t have women by our side. Sadly society and the evil one used Eves beauty to harbours lust in men and degrading the precious jewel the Lord gave us and creation.


Join me in the discovery of the deep longing of the women’s heart, not many has entered that secret garden , not many know the Key , the only key to your beloved or wife’s heart is Jesus Christ He is the one who has the key to that secret garden.



Last Updated on Thursday, 20 May 2010 22:15
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